It is a privilege to be a player/member of EAYSAM. I understand that I must follow the rules of the club and the League in which my team plays. I further understand that in order to remain a player in good standing I must follow these rules.

1. I will respect the game of soccer and its laws. I will learn these laws and try to follow them. I will play the game fairly.
2. I will show respect for the authority of the referee, even though I will sometimes disagree with his/her calls.
3. I will work for the good of the team and conduct myself with honor and dignity.
4. I will show good sportsmanship before, during and after games. I understand that soccer is a game, and that the players on the other team are my opponents, not my enemies.
5. I will help parents and fans understand the Laws of the Game so they can watch and enjoy the game better.
6. I will be sure they (parents and fans) understand that dissent is not permitted

Coaches shall conduct themselves properly at all times.

1. Take all reasonable precautions to insure the safety of each youth.
2. Take whatever action necessary to control the actions of their fans.
3. Be accountable for all EAYSAM issued property, fields, and buildings, including equipment located on the field or in the building being utilized.
4. Report all injuries to EAYSAM within 24 hours of such occurrence.
5. Abide by all EAYSAM rules and regulations.
6. Insure the cleanliness of facilities upon completion of his or her activity.
7. Use profanity at or to any youth, parent, or official is prohibited.
8. Strike, push, or shove any game official, another coach, or a spectator is prohibited.
9. Drop any youth from participation without the action first being approved by EAYSAM. EAYSAM must be notified immediately if any player is suspended temporarily for disciplinary reasons.
10. Represent himself or herself as an officer or spokesperson for EAYSAM to any group, committee, or agency without approval of the EAYSAM board.

The essential elements of character building and ethics in sports are embodied in the concept of sportsmanship and six core principles: trustworthiness, respect, responsibility, fairness, caring, and good citizenship. The highest potential of sports is achieved when competition reflects these “six pillars of character.” I therefore agree: 

1. I will not force my child to participate in sports.
2. I will remember that children participate to have fun and that the game is for youth, not adults.
3. I will inform the coach of any physical disability or ailment that may affect the safety of my child or the safety of others.
4. I will learn the rules of the game and the policies of the league.
5. I (and my guests) will be a positive role model for my child and encourage sportsmanship by showing respect and courtesy, and by demonstrating positive support for all players, coaches, officials and spectators at every game, practice or sporting event.
6. I (and my guests) will not engage in any kind of unsportsmanlike conduct with any official, coach, player, or parent such as booing and taunting, refusing to shake hands, or using profane language or gestures
7. I will not encourage any behaviors or practices that would endanger the health and well-being of the athletes
8. I will teach my child to play by the rules and to resolve conflicts without resorting to hostility or violence.
9. I will demand that my child treat other players, coaches, officials and spectators with respect regardless of race, creed, color, sex or ability.
10. I will teach my child that doing one’s best is more important than winning, so that my child will never feel defeated by the outcome of a game or his/her performance.
11. I will praise my child for competing fairly and trying hard, and make my child feel like a winner every time.
12. I will never ridicule or yell at my child or other participants for making a mistake or losing a competition
13. I will emphasize skill development and practices and how they benefit my child over winning. I will also de-emphasize games and competition in the lower age groups.
14. I will promote the emotional and physical well-being of the athletes ahead of any personal desire I may have for my child to win.
15. I will respect the officials and their authority during games and will never question, discuss, or confront coaches at the game field, and will take time to speak with coaches at an agreed upon time and place.
16. I will demand a sports environment for my child that is free from drugs, tobacco, and alcohol, and I will refrain from their use at all sports events.
17. I will refrain from coaching my child or other players during games and practices, unless I am one of the official coaches of the team.